YOUR TWIN FLAME IS YOU…

Updated: Aug 21, 2021



Very often, as I receive the list of questions for channeling or hypnosis sessions from my clients, I notice that they are full of pain, sadness, anger, and sometimes even hatred for their twin flame. And this makes me very sad, because I know that they have the same feelings in their hearts for themselves or for the people around them...


Nevertheless, I also went through many different stages, where I pointed my finger at my twin and believed that he was the cause of all my problems. I couldn’t understand why he treated me so coldly and why he always closed the door of his life to prevent me from entering. Then I called the process I was going through "the curse of the twin flames"...


However, when I found the truth inside me, the opposite proved to be the case. He was actually my best teacher and my strictest therapist, and I realized that because only thanks to him I was able to find my true identity. He didn't miss anything. With great precision and even hard honesty, he showed me what I needed to heal. He didn’t give me his hand to help me get up as I fell, but he was always there to show me the right direction.


I crossed the road alone... Thanks to this, I learned to trust myself, my intuition, to allow my heart to take the lead, to fight for my happiness, to live for myself, not for others, and to love myself for who I really am...


Now I feel immense gratitude for every moment I was able to share with my twin flame, for all the years of separation, and for his sincerity... I needed all this to reach the union within me.


Having a twin flame and experiencing each other in the earthly reality is undoubtedly a gift for me... I know that now:-)


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Recently, a very dear friend of mine, who is also on the Twin Flame's path, went through an unpleasant process but learned a liberating lesson. She gave her twin more love than anyone else in his life. Her dedication, patience, and willingness to heal him were truly admirable. Suddenly her intuition began to tell her that something was wrong... She felt that something bad was going to happen...


A few days later, the universe dropped a bucket of ice water on her... Her twin behaved as if she was the least important person on earth to him... Probably, most of the people reading this article at the moment know perfectly well how it is like to experience this...


Of course, she felt betrayed, deceived, humiliated by him. And she had the right to feel that way... She couldn’t understand how her twin flame could act like that. In her reality, such a thing didn’t even exist in theory. And yet, she experienced it in the hardest way. She had the feeling that suddenly someone came in with dirty shoes and soiled her sacred space.


As we were talking and she was expressing her pain and frustration, as well as complaining about the universe that allowed for this to happen, I suddenly heard the voice of my higher self in response:


- "You did it to yourself"


- "What do you mean; How did I do that?" - She asked surprised. Her logic said that she had never done anything wrong to anyone, that she was the victim in this case, not the culprit.

- "You hurt yourself." - the higher self repeated for the second time… - "After all, your twin flame is you".


And she began to listen... Carefully...

- “What happened has nothing to do with him, but with the way you treat yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you are not faithful to yourself (only to yourself!), if you don’t respect yourself, your needs, and your dreams, then your twin flame will do exactly the same".


Deep down she knew it was true, but the rational mind kept looking for the culprit somewhere else...


- “Is everything that happens to you in your life really your responsibility? Don't other people surrounding you play a role? Do the dreams you have for the future aim at your own happiness or the happiness of your twin flame? Are the plans you make 100% yours or do you make them to please your twin, your mom, your dad, your loved ones, etc? Have the decisions you have made so far come directly from your heart or they were based on how others would judge you and what they would say about you? Do you do things just to make others proud of you, to make your family happy, to satisfy your clients, to make people respect and love you? Have you started taking care of your body because you want to be healthy or because you want your twin and everyone else to like you? Etc., etc., etc... »


- “It’s me... Indeed, I always think of others first, so that they are happy and proud of me... While I put myself in the second place"- she agreed...


- "You have to be true to yourself and 100% only to yourself... Otherwise, it’s like selling yourself... And this is what your twin flame shows you right now" - the higher self concluded.


At the same time, I started "watching" a scene, a vision, which I had already seen many times... It so the story goes...


I see myself standing in front of a huge mirror. In the reflection I observe myself, but at the same time, I feel, that it is my twin flame... I know that on the three-dimensional, earthly plane we experience ourselves as two different beings, but I feel with my whole being, that in reality, he is not there at all... It’s only ME...


After a while, I see one soul - not two different souls who have recognized each other after years and there is a mutual outburst of love... I see a SOUL that is looking at ITSELF and loves it more than anyone else...


Yes... The soul is standing in front of the mirror and is looking at itself... It’s embracing itself... It loves itself... It takes care of itself...


There are no two separate beings in the spirit world... There is a soul that FOUND ITSELF...


- “Your twin flame does not exist. There is no separate being. There is no other soul. There is only you."- the higher self continued to explain -"What your twin flame does to you and what you experience because of him is just a reflection of your inner world... It’s how you treat yourself."


I see the soul, again, standing in front of the mirror, in love... with itself... with its own reflection... !!!


- "I love you more than anyone else in the universe" - it says, looking at itself...


Then I see the soul extinguish and transform into an earthly body. On the other side of the mirror stands my twin flame. I smile at him and he smiles at me at the same time. I greet him and he does exactly the same... He doesn’t really exist... It is just my image that is reflected in the mirror...


- "Your twin flame is you... It is a projection of your inner world... It is your own image that is reflected on the opposite side... It is your shadow, which always makes the same movements as you do..." - said my higher self...


It was true... I looked at the reflection in the mirror and I saw the shape of my twin flame fading, merging with my own reflection... I was shocked to realize that while feeling love for him, I actually felt love for myself! It was as if this love was reflected in the mirror and returned to me...


- "The soul looks at itself... Its own reflection... Your twin flame is you... There is no separate being... It is not a separate soul... It is only you"...


And as I was standing in front of the mirror, feeling the unconditional love flooding every cell of my body, every particle of my soul, my higher self commented:


- "Your soul loves itself... And here is the secret... To achieve union on the earthly plane, you must reflect the vibrations of your own soul... You must first love yourself completely... When you achieve this, then your twin flame will love you too... It is just your own image that is projected on him... Stand in front of the mirror and love yourself, your body, your soul, your needs, your dreams - everything that is yours and only yours... And when you succeed, the same will happen on the opposite side of the mirror - your twin flame. This is what your soul wants and only this - self-love. Nothing else. Because this is our true identity - pure light and love... ".


Your twin flame does not exist… It's just you….



Alexandra FreeSoul



Translation - Cristine Tsigdinou & Maria Karabini



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