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Is he/she my twin flame? (channeled)

Updated: May 15, 2021


Is he/she my twin flame? (channeled)

As soon as you realize that the relationship with the person you're dealing with is different, more deeper and more intense, that it takes place on many dimensions at the same time, then the universe tries to make you familiar with the term "twin flames".

However, at this stage, hardly anyone listens to the voice of their heart and follows their intuition. The logical mind demands evidence, but a tangible one, not just a supposition. You want 100% confirmation that this person is your twin flame.

Such kind of a relationship is completely unknown to you. You can't compare the dynamic between the two of you to anything you have experienced in your life so far. The fearful ego does everything to arouse uncertainty in your mind and to force you to return to the previous, well-known comfort zone. It doesn't want you to start listening to your heart because it will lose its strength and power over your thoughts and decisions...

Unexpectedly, you find yourself in the middle of a great battle between your logical mind (trying to convince you that you're getting crazy and you live in an imaginary world), and your intuition (pushing you stronger towards the unknown and making you feel that something beautiful is waiting for you there)...

Fear is mixed with love... Uncertainty with desire... Euphoria with sadness... The world around you seems to be totally different than before… Your inner world is driven by a real emotional roller-coaster.

You may try to get in touch with your person, longing for answers or a piece of advice. You want to check if they have the same feelings for you. You want to compare your experiences. However, most often, you won't get any answer... And that's how it should be... It doesn't happen by accident…

Instead of looking deep into your heart, you hide in your logical mind again... You feel that you were so close to confirming your truth but you failed. The situation starts complicating even more now. You want to forget about them. You try to focus on other relationships, but you can’t... You get the impression that the entire universe sends signs to remind you of your person... Their face appears in front of your eyes, or you see their name everywhere... You fight with it as much as you can, you try to ignore their existence...

When you have finally succeeded to clear your mind and you started being neutral towards them, unexpectedly, you see them in your dreams. When you wake up you love them more than ever...

And again... Logical thoughts move to the background. You let your heart lead you. You feel extreme happiness and you want to share your joy with the whole world. However, here it’s where the plot thickens. Nobody understands you... To make matters worse, your best friends and relatives advise you to forget about them, to find someone more approachable, “earthly”, real... Well, let's face the truth - for them, you are in love with a ghost... They believe that you live in a dream state, admiring an imaginary person - someone, you may not even know in the "real" world very well...


But you feel them in your body, you recognize their closeness, you know when they hug you, touch you, talk to you. The love that exists in your heart is not only yours but also theirs. You know when they feel happy and when they are sad, when they have hard times or when they are successful. You don't even miss the fact that they think about you sexually... For you it's true... They are real, despite the fact that their physical body is not right next to you at that moment...

You try to explain it to everyone. In vain... You see they worry about you listening to your words. You start to question your mental health... You no longer know what’s true and what’s a lie... You have doubts... You doubt your twin’s existence, the logic of your mind, your intuition’s guidance, and the whole story... After all, everyone tells you that you imagined it... It's impossible that so many people are wrong, and only you are right...

The cycle starts over again... You return to your logical mind... You try to clear your thoughts and to let the ordinary, everyday life to replace travels to other dimensions... And suddenly, you see their eyes... Dreams, images, visions, memories, sounds, scents... Anything that causes the unconditional love to explode from your heart again... You feel their love, their closeness as well... You realize how much you've missed them. You cry from happiness but also from pain caused by not having them in your arms...

You want to find answers once and for all... You've probably read all the articles on the internet. You've seen most of the videos about twin flames. You've bought a stack of books about the same topic... Yes, it resonates with you. You start to be sure that the person you're dealing with is your twin flame... And as you finally feel comfortable facing the truth, you start wondering if your twin knows about you as well. All you want is to have them in your life, in your arms. You want to talk to them immediately…

And surprisingly, instead of finding them jumping straight into your arms and reciprocating your love, they simply disappear... They ghost you... You feel shame, pain, rejection... Well, there is no chance that they really love you. They wouldn't act like that... They would fight for you. Apparently, they are indifferent towards you. Your friends were right. You imagined it all...

The story repeats itself... You return to point zero.

You are on the verge of a mental breakdown... You don't know what to believe anymore... You don't know whether you love them or hate them for what you have to get through... You want to return to your peaceful, boring life and forget about them, once and for all... You try to detach yourself, but the pain is so great that you are not sure if you help yourself or do more harm... The nights are darker than ever without them... But you've made your decision. You don't want them anymore, you even curse them... And when you wake up the next morning you still love them... You can't deal with it anymore...

You may even start practicing meditation, tarot readings, and other quantum or intuitive practices. Strangely, you get explanations about all other topics, but when you ask the magic question: "Is he/she my twin flame?" you can only see the black background... You get the impression that the whole universe is against you...

Then you start looking for help from people who seem to have more experience. You find special mentors for twin flames, tarot or angel cards readings, akashic records, fortune tellers, etc. There is a whole range of services available for you - starting from love spells and rituals, ending with cutting the connection or the cord, and taking your freedom back... You have a hard time deciding what to choose and you would like to try everything. In reality, you don't even know if you want to win them back or to let them go. You just want to get the answer whether they're your twin or karmic partner... Whether you’ve imagined it all or it's real…

At this point, there are many directions you can take. You can find people who channel information and guidance directly from the source and they can really help you, but there is also a big chance that you will get into the wrong hands and you’ll meet someone who simply wants to earn money from your misfortune. You must be very careful whose advice you listen to because the consequences can only be unpredictable and likely to end tragically for you.

The person you are dealing with doesn't have to be your true twin flame. If you aren’t sure yet please observe your dynamic. But always choose your own good and happiness first. Don't let anyone hurt you or abuse you. Never stay in an unhealthy relationship, whether you consider your person to be your twin flame or not.

However, if deep in your heart you feel that you are on a twin flame path, then you should know that it didn't happen by accident. The whole process has been planned before and the love that connects both of you is very important, especially at this time. It’s an extremely important factor. It helps to change the vibration of the globe.

Each harmonious union between twin flames is like a lighthouse that illuminates the sky during dark nights, showing other souls the way back home. It’s not only your personal story. Your existence is important for the whole world. Any techniques aiming at breaking the connection between the two of you or any advice to detach from your twin should be alarming for you.

This is a process that is led by divine, unconditional love only, no other feelings or energies are involved. It's a path to your true self where your twin flame is your best teacher and guide. Their actions show you exactly what you need to heal in yourself. It can be painful sometimes because your twin uncovers all your unhealed old wounds. However, this is the only way to face them and heal them once and for all. This is the only way to freedom.

If you get rid of everything that no longer serves you, you will find your inner peace. Only then will your vibrations be able to rise and stay at a high level all the time. Nothing will keep you in the unhealthy past anymore. You will reconnect with your true self... You will be free!

If anyone advises you to get out of the twin flame path, then you must consider that it’s probably not for your highest good.

You and your twin may need to separate for a certain period of time. It’s important for both of you to have a closer look into your inner worlds and to work on anything that is holding you back and blocking your growth. However, after the healing process is complete, you will start searching for each other again. Nothing and no one can replace soul and heart connections that exist between the twin flames.

Now listen carefully.

How quickly you will find out whether the person you’re dealing with is your twin flame or not depends only on you.

In fact, you don't need ANYONE to give you the answer to this question. The truth is within you... It has been there from the very beginning of your existence... You have known it from the moment you looked into that person's eyes... Your heart has already known the answer from the day you met... Your soul always knows it... Because, in reality, you are one, you share the same soul and consciousness. Cutting the connection is impossible.

The point is not even to find the truth, but more to accept it... No matter what the whole world has to say about your story, you have to decide by yourself which direction you are about to choose and whether you let your heart or mind lead you through your life.

This is the first and probably the most difficult task you have to face on your twin flame path - to listen to the voice of your heart…

Everyone has both masculine and feminine energies within themselves. People who mainly use their logical side may have a hard time allowing their intuition to guide them. It’s an unpleasant experience for them, but very important as well! It’s not only a great step towards finding their truth, but they also getting closer to their inner union while balancing both energies. They’re able to create more happy and fulfilling lives.

You will receive a confirmation from the outside world only if you’ve felt and accepted the truth inside you. The universe will give you all the missing puzzles then. Although, you will no longer need anyone's help anyway... Finding the truth by yourself will allow you to calmly focus on the next stage of the process, without asking for any more proof...

Therefore, instead of looking for answers in the outside world, focus on yourself, have a look deep inside your soul, listen carefully to your heart. Let your intuition lead you...

It’s not always easy... Following the path chosen by your heart, you may be forced to do things that are completely illogical or opposite to your previous beliefs and principles. You may even have to give up on some friendships or relationships, to distant yourself from certain relatives, or even, for some time, you will have to stay completely alone...

But the whole secret lies there... You will realize that you are NEVER alone... The twin flame path is not a romantic relationship, but an amazing process that reveals to you who you truly are, where you are from, and where you are headed... Your journey will make you understand that you are a part of the bigger plan, a missing piece of the universe, an essential element of what is happening on Earth today. You will realize that you have the highest protection in every second of your life as well as help with the smallest problem you need to face. Because your existence matters. You are important!

Although, you need to start listening to your intuition... It will not only give you the answer to the question of whether your person is your twin flame or not... It will guide you through all the dilemmas you’ll face in your life. If you start operating from the level of your heart, you will quickly understand which vibration connects with the truth and which with the lie. Making decisions will be easy and you’ll save yourself from unnecessary sleepless nights. You’ll just FEEL which direction you should take. The ego will lose its power over you, and other people's opinions will no longer affect you.

Your truth is within you. And only there is where you should look for it. Your heart knows which the right path is... Even if you see that there is a real chasm between you and your goal at the present moment, the universe will surprise you many times and you won't even notice when you will get to the other side...

It is the logical mind that sees only limitations.

The heart sees nothing but possibilities.

Let unconditional love guide you...


Alexandra FreeSoul


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