I don't want my twin flame anymore (channeled)

Updated: May 15, 2021


I don't want my twin flame anymore


A twin flame journey is not an easy process. There will be moments when you will miss an ordinary relationship. You may even regret that your twin has appeared in your life and turned it upside down. You start convincing yourself that a typical, stable partner would be a better choice. The emotional roller-coaster seems to have no end. You've been working on yourself and your inner world for a long time, but you don't see any change in your TF dynamic. Your twin is absent. You still love them, miss them. You change yourself and try to believe in a better future. You wait for a sign from the universe, for an indication that you are on the right path. But there is only silence...

You watch couples holding hands and embracing each other all around you. You may even see your twin flame in the arms of another person. So what if your souls can't be separated. In the three-dimensional reality you live in, you feel lonely, you lack physical closeness, mutual feelings, tangible evidence that this person and your connection are even real.

Where are they? Why don't they talk to you? Why do they treat you this way? You begin to doubt that they will ever love you as much as you do. If they loved you, they would do everything to be with you - that's what you say. And you feel worse every day... You want to give them everything, but every time you decide to contact them, they shut the door in your face. You feel rejected, hurt, cheated by fate...

You are just tired…


Tired of working on yourself, unrequited love, waiting for someone who is more like in your imagination than a real person. Tired of the whole process, which mostly takes place on a spiritual plane. However, you are here and now. They're not there. You think they don't want you, they don't love you. And it hurts... Especially, because you haven't loved anyone so much until now. And you can't even understand why it happens and why you haven't forgotten about them yet.

Nobody wants to feel pain... You do everything to distract yourself from thinking about them. You jump straight into work, studies, you hang out with new people, you reconnect with your old friends. You even start looking for a new partner believing that it will be a solution for your difficult situation and you will find your lost happiness by their side.


You close your heart...

You organize everything in your mind. You plan your future and imagine that life without your twin doesn't have to be that bad. You want to go back to normal, everyday life, to fall in love and achieve something that will be stable, unchanging in your life. You start believing that you managed to forget about them.

Your mind believes it.

But where would your heart lead you if you let it feel what is hidden deep inside? What would your intuition tell you if you gave a voice to it?


You close your heart...

You know that if you move from your mind to the level of your heart, you will feel the same pain again… Rejection... Heartbreak... Suffering... And love... The love that never ends...

If you only had a proof your twin loves you, maybe you would dare to have a look at your feelings. However, you don’t know it. You run away from what your intuition tries to tell you. You think that your logical mind will provide you with protection and a stable life...

You are tired. It is true. Your fatigue is real and the effort you have put on working on yourself and striving for union with your twin as well.


But have a closer look at it…

Who feels hurt and rejected? Who is afraid to face their feelings and prefer to hide in a logical, comfort zone? Who wants to go against what the universe has planned for them, fearing failure and rejection? Who acts on principle: "If he/she treated me like that, then I will do exactly the same"? Who makes decisions from the victim's perspective?

Your ego.

Your ego is hurt...

Your ego is fearful...

Your ego wants revenge...

Your ego hides behind logical thoughts…

Your ego blocks all the actions towards the direction your intuition guides you...

Your ego kills your heart…

Will you let it win?

In your heart and at a soul level there is only unconditional love. This unconditional love connects you always with your twin flame. You don't need any confirmation from them. You just know it. Your heart knows... Your soul will always long for them...

If you feel any negative feelings towards your twin flame or towards yourself, it's a sign that you need to have a closer look at it. This is a sign that some unhealed aspects of yourself stand in the way of your union.

If you feel tired - take a rest. Do something that you love, focus on things that give you joy. The process that takes place in your life is not an easy one. Therefore, it is important that you take care of yourself.

Also, remember that neither your twin flame nor any other person will bring you happiness if you haven't found it within yourself. Whatever you do along the TF path, do it only for yourself - not to attract your twin to your life. In this way you will stop having expectations, you won't feel failure, disappointment, regret, or rejection. You will turn these emotions into satisfaction and feeling proud of yourself with every step you make towards a better future, with every positive change that you bring into your life.

Look back and see how many things you have healed in your life since your souls recognized each other. Focus only on your inner world. Work on yourself as if there was no one else but only you in the entire universe. And enjoy every achievement, even the smallest ones. Notice them. See how much work you put into it FOR YOURSELF!

Avoid judging your twin. They are going through their own process. Probably as difficult as yours. Their actions are mirror images of the stage you are currently at, they show you what you need to change in yourself, in your life.

The only reliable measure that shows if you get closer or further from the union with your twin flame is the measure of your own happiness and fulfillment.

Happiness is within you.

Look for it inside you...

Get rid of expectations and have faith in the bigger plan of the universe. Nothing, absolutely nothing happens without a reason.

Set the union within yourself as a target. When you manage to achieve it, then you will be ready to invite your twin flame into your life. You'll be ready for a real, harmonious union at all levels.

You must remember that you are never alone and that you always have divine help and guidance. Let your intuition lead you. If you feel you are at a crossroads, then listen to what your heart has to say. It is never wrong...


Alexandra FreeSoul